News

3 February
2025

“Unmarried, Separated, and Parenting: What Are Your Rights and Your Children’s Future?”

Modern families don’t always fit the traditional mold. In South Africa, more parents are raising children outside of marriage, leading to unique legal and emotional challenges when separation occurs.

In South Africa, relationships outside of marriage are increasingly common, reflecting the dynamic nature of modern family structures. Many parents find themselves in complex challenges after separating, not knowing what their rights and responsibilities are toward their children.

In family law, the principle of the best interest of the child serves as a crucial guide in navigating separation and parental responsibilities, irrespective of the marital status of the parents. Both parents, regardless of their relationship status, have an obligation to provide emotional stability, financial and physical support for their children. Even in the absence of a marriage certificate, the duty of the parents to nurture and protect the child’s emotional and physical well-being remains unchanged. Holding on to this principle will help both parents navigate the complexities of separation while prioritising their children’s needs.

South African law is designed to ensure fair outcomes for both parents and, most importantly, children in these situations. For instance, in the case of unmarried parents, the circumstances surrounding their relationship and both parents’ involvement with the children are crucial factors in determining parental rights and responsibilities. Unmarried fathers who do not automatically acquire these rights can apply to the court for parental rights and responsibilities. The court will always prioritise the best interests of the child, which serves as the paramount consideration in all matters concerning the child.

However, no two families are the same, which is why tailored legal guidance is essential. At our firm, we understand the personal and emotional challenges these situations can bring. Our team of compassionate family law attorneys work closely with clients to create solutions that address their unique needs, ensuring that children are protected, and parental rights are upheld.

If you are in an unmarried, separated parenting situation, we are here to help. Take the next step today by contacting us to discuss your situation. Our team will provide personalised guidance on your rights and ensure your children’s best interest are always protected.

News and publications

25 September
2025

Maintenance Beyond 18: Understanding Your Rights After Divorce

For many divorced parents in South Africa, the age of 18 is often seen as a milestone where maintenance payments automatically stop. However, South African law recognises that parents’ maintenance obligations can extend beyond the age of 18, particularly when a child remains financially dependent, such as when they are still in school, pursuing tertiary education, or unable to support themselves.

3 February
2025

“Unmarried, Separated, and Parenting: What Are Your Rights and Your Children’s Future?”

Modern families don’t always fit the traditional mold. In South Africa, more parents are raising children outside of marriage, leading to unique legal and emotional challenges when separation occurs.

28 June
2024

Navigating Divorce with Mediation: Embracing the Benefits – by Rika Odendal

Mediation is an important aspect of divorce proceedings in South Africa and is increasingly being utilised as an alternative dispute resolution method.

30 April
2024

The devastating results of late-life divorces

Late-life divorces, often referred to as “grey divorces,” can have profound and unexpected consequences on individuals and families. After decades of marriage, the decision to part ways in the later stages of life can bring about significant emotional, financial, and practical challenges.